No wor... you were lecturing me on how no relationship is
perfect and some sort of compromise is needed wor. 
So I had to show you the things I absolutely
refuse to compromise on.
I think I ask my ah mah to arrange a matchmaking session for me
better... 
lecturing? didn't mean to do that, just sharing my thoughts on
this
"And I no longer believe in bending over backwards to tolerate
something that I KNOW will come up in future and be the spark that
ignites anger / frustration / irritation."
because that is what i found - there is a lot of
bending backwards in a marriage - and it took me a long time to
understand that because I found it hard to live with someone else
initially ... ... and compromising was something that I REALLY had
a lot of problems with.
Don't take my words too personally - It was just
my own random thoughts and sharing of what I went through.
